Family of five

We lived together for eighteen years, of which the youngest family member was there for twelve.

Last night we had a family get together with 'the old family'. I would say it's a rarity and that we are quite unique to even now have moments as an 'old' family', without spouses or children. We still enjoy spending time together, we have interesting discussions and we rarely argue. Can't even remember when we last had a family argument, but we (children) all remember what used to happen when our parents argued when we were little. It usually ended up with one of them going for a walk. Perhaps with the impact that we (or should I say I) have a tendency to close off when I'm really upset about something. The effective silent treatment... or as a variety, the famous ostrich behaviour.

It's now twenty years since I left home. Still, the impact my parents, sister and brother have on my values, attitudes and behaviours will always be an important foundation of who I am. Family heritage and family values form you for a lifetime. I'm very lucky I picked such a good 'old family'.